Friendships and Sobriety: Finding Balance with Josh and Monique
Yeah, so there will probably be friends that your only common ground is addiction, and with those friends you just got to keep them at a distance. You have to really think that through, especially because what do you do if every single one of your family members and friends drink, just stay in your room all day?
How do you keep your friends close while keeping alcohol at bay? In this episode of 'Alternatives to AA', hosts Josh and Monique Robinson tackle the tricky terrain of maintaining friendships during sobriety. They share their personal experiences and practical tips on how to navigate social circles where drinking is the norm.
From finding new activities that don’t revolve around alcohol to setting boundaries with friends who drink, Josh and Monique offer a wealth of advice for anyone trying to stay sober without losing their social life. One of the key points they discuss is the importance of changing your environment. It’s all too easy to fall back into old habits when you’re surrounded by the same triggers.
Instead of meeting friends at bars or parties, why not suggest a walk in the park or a coffee date? It’s about finding common ground that doesn’t involve alcohol. But what about those friendships that are built on shared drinking experiences? Josh and Monique explore the delicate balance between maintaining these relationships and prioritizing your sobriety. Sometimes, it might mean keeping certain friends at arm's length or even letting go of those who can’t support your new lifestyle.
It’s a tough call, but as they emphasize, your well-being comes first. They also delve into the emotional aspects of addiction, highlighting how emotional pain often fuels the urge to drink. By addressing these underlying issues and finding healthier ways to cope, you can better manage your sobriety journey. Whether it's through therapy, hobbies, or supportive networks, there are ways to fill the void that alcohol once occupied.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with the social challenges of sobriety. Josh and Monique’s heartfelt discussions and actionable advice provide a roadmap for thriving in a sober life while still keeping your friendships intact.