Breaking Free from Family Scapegoat Abuse: Insights with Rebecca Mandeville
When the child is able to act out, cause I think there's less damage, is that I think there's many scapegoated children where it gets internalized and it's a quiet internal implosion and often you will end up with depression, suicidal ideation and even suicide.
Family scapegoat abuse is a term that might not be familiar to everyone, but its effects are deeply felt by those who experience it. In this eye-opening episode of the Adult Child podcast, host Andrea sits down with Rebecca Mandeville, a licensed psychotherapist and certified complex trauma professional, to unpack this often-overlooked form of abuse. Mandeville has spent over two decades advocating for individuals whose voices are silenced by systemic disempowerment, making her an invaluable guest on this topic.
Throughout the episode, Andrea and Rebecca engage in a heartfelt discussion about the long-lasting impacts of being the family scapegoat. They touch on various interconnected issues such as codependency, generational trauma, and toxic shame. Mandeville’s extensive research and best-selling book, 'Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed: Help and Hope for Adults in the Family Scapegoat Role', provide a foundation for understanding how these dynamics play out and what steps can be taken toward healing.
What makes this episode stand out is the raw and vulnerable way in which both Andrea and Rebecca address these painful topics. Their conversation isn't just theoretical; it's filled with practical advice and personal anecdotes that make the subject matter relatable and actionable. If you've ever felt marginalized or blamed within your family, this episode offers not just understanding but also hope.
So, if you're ready to confront some difficult truths and take steps toward healing from family scapegoat abuse, this episode is a must-listen. Rebecca Mandeville's insights will leave you feeling seen, heard, and equipped with the tools to start your journey toward recovery.