Shitshow Kris Shares His Journey from Dysfunction to Healing on Adult Child
The crumbs off of somebody, like crumbs fell off of somebody for a relationship for me, is what I would be willing to accept, because I didn't feel like, deep down in the deepest parts of my soul, that I was lovable.
Ever wondered how the echoes of a chaotic childhood can shape your adult life? In this episode of Adult Child, Andrea sits down with Shitshow Kris, who bravely opens up about his tumultuous upbringing and its lingering effects. Kris delves into his struggles with codependency, complex trauma, and the heavy weight of toxic shame that followed him into adulthood.
Through raw and heartfelt conversation, Kris reveals how his grandmother played a pivotal role in his journey towards breaking free from the cycle of dysfunction. One striking moment in the episode is when Kris talks about feeling unworthy of love, settling for the 'crumbs' in relationships because he didn't believe he deserved more. This poignant admission resonates deeply with many who have faced similar battles.
The discussion doesn't shy away from the hard truths but also offers a beacon of hope. Andrea and Kris emphasize the importance of self-love, therapy, and support systems like 12-step programs. They acknowledge the tough road of recovery but affirm that healing is not only possible but profoundly rewarding. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with the shadows of a dysfunctional family, offering both empathy and encouragement to those on their own path to recovery.