Facing Denial: The Key to True Recovery
Episode Overview
Denial acts as a defence mechanism to avoid pain. Vulnerability is essential for personal growth and recovery. Recognising and addressing denial early can prevent long-term issues. Honesty with oneself and peer support are crucial in recovery. Unaddressed pain can lead to destructive behaviours and sabotage progress.
Denial is a self-appointed pain avoider. It can be habitual or automatic.
Denial and vulnerability are at the heart of Episode 23 of Courage Recovery, hosted by Roger L'Hereault. This episode dives into the tricky nature of denial and why being vulnerable is so hard for many people struggling with substance use disorders. Roger kicks things off with quotes from Rumi and Brené Brown, setting the stage for a deep conversation about pain and courage.
He explains that denial is often a defence mechanism to avoid pain, which can persist even after someone has stopped using substances. Roger uses relatable examples to show how denial can creep back into one's life, even years into recovery, and how it can sabotage relationships, careers, and personal growth if left unchecked. He stresses the importance of recognising these patterns early and tackling them head-on through honesty and peer support.
Roger's insights are both compassionate and practical, offering listeners a clear understanding of why facing pain is crucial for long-term recovery. This episode is a must-listen for anyone in recovery or supporting someone who is, providing valuable strategies to break through denial and embrace vulnerability.