People Pleasing: The Hidden Selfishness and Finding True Confidence
Confidence does not inhibit humility, it actually enhances it.
Ever thought being a people pleaser makes you a 'nice person'? Rachel and David Godfrey are here to challenge that notion. In this episode of The Chase Life Podcast, they tackle two intriguing listener questions that dig deep into the heart of people-pleasing and confidence. First up, they dismantle the myth that people-pleasing is an act of kindness. Instead, they argue it's driven by selfish motives like seeking approval and avoiding conflict.
You'll hear why this habit can lead to burnout and resentment, and get practical tips on setting boundaries and learning to say 'no' without guilt. Next, they dive into the tricky balance of being confident yet humble. Rachel and David explain how true confidence actually enhances humility rather than diminishing it. They break down the difference between confidence and arrogance, offering insights on standing up for your values while remaining compassionate and considerate.
Through personal stories and reflections, the hosts highlight the importance of self-awareness and core values in building genuine self-confidence. This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling with people-pleasing tendencies or looking to boost their self-confidence. Rachel and David's empathetic approach provides not just advice but a comforting sense of understanding. Tune in to discover how you can break free from the cycle of people-pleasing and embrace a more confident, humble version of yourself.