Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
You Can't Give Borderlines What They Need They Don't Want It From You Anyway
You Can't Give Borderlines What They Need They Don't Want It From You Anyway
You Can't Give Borderlines What They Need They Don't Want It From You Anyway
Tuesday 15th October 2024
A.J. Mahari explains why you can't meet the needs of someone with BPD and how to prioritise your own well-being in these challenging relationships.
25 minutes
Informative
Compassionate
Supportive
Honest
Healing
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
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Recovery from Trauma
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Episode Overview
- You can't meet the needs of someone with BPD.
- People with BPD often don't want the love and support you offer.
- Trying to 'fix' a loved one with BPD can leave you feeling empty.
- Prioritising self-care and self-respect is crucial.
- Breaking free from toxic cycles is essential for healing.
"You can't give Borderlines what they need, and they don't want it from you anyway"
Ever wondered why relationships with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can feel like a never-ending emotional rollercoaster? In this episode, A.J. Mahari, a seasoned Counsellor and Trauma Recovery Coach, breaks down the harsh reality of being in a relationship with someone with BPD. Mahari explains that people with BPD often can't receive the love and support you offer, and they might not even want it from you.
It's a tough pill to swallow, but understanding this can be the first step toward healing. Mahari delves into the dynamics of codependency, highlighting how trying to meet the needs of someone with BPD can leave you feeling empty and unfulfilled. Through heartfelt anecdotes and practical advice, Mahari urges listeners to prioritise their own well-being. She discusses the importance of breaking free from these toxic cycles and focusing on self-care and self-respect.
If you've ever found yourself caught in the exhausting loop of trying to 'fix' a loved one with BPD, this episode offers a compassionate yet straightforward perspective on why it's crucial to shift your focus back to yourself. Mahari's blend of empathy and expertise makes this episode a must-listen for anyone struggling to understand their relationship with someone who has BPD.