Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Why Narcissists Feel They Must Know All About Their Victims After The Relationship Is Over
Why Narcissists Feel They Must Know All About Their Victims After The Relationship Is Over
Why Narcissists Feel They Must Know All About Their Victims After The Relationship Is Over
Tuesday 29th November 2022
Learn why narcissists obsess over their victims after a breakup with insights from Cynthia Bailey-Rug. Discover how to protect your privacy and move on.
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Get the buttons here!Narcissists and Their Post-Relationship Obsession: Cynthia Bailey-Rug's Take
When someone ends a relationship with a functional person, that functional person may want to know what the other person is up to after the relationship ends, but they're not obsessed. Narcissists are not like this. They think they're entitled to know whatever they like about their victims because they want to know. Nothing else matters to them, like respect, privacy or boundaries.
Ever wondered why narcissists just can't seem to let go, even after the relationship is over? In this episode, Cynthia Bailey-Rug dives into the unsettling behavior of narcissists who continue to snoop on their victims long after the breakup. Picture this: you've moved on, but your ex is still keeping tabs on you through social media or mutual friends. Creepy, right?
Cynthia explains that narcissists feel an irrational need to know everything about their victims, driven by a sense of entitlement and control. Drawing from her own experiences, Cynthia recounts the unnerving reality of having someone monitor her Facebook activities and report back to two narcissists. The frustration and helplessness of being watched can make anyone feel trapped. But why do narcissists do this? According to Cynthia, while most people might be curious about an ex's life, they respect boundaries.
Narcissists, however, see no issue in invading privacy if it serves their purpose. The episode goes further to highlight the stark differences between functional people and narcissists in relationships. Functional individuals respect boundaries and privacy, understanding that everyone deserves their space. Narcissists, on the other hand, only care about what they can gain from knowing your every move. Cynthia emphasizes the importance of protecting yourself from such invasive behavior.
It's not just about moving on; it's about reclaiming your privacy and peace of mind. If you've ever felt violated by an ex who just won't let go, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice on how to safeguard your personal space. Cynthia's blend of personal anecdotes and professional wisdom makes this a must-listen for anyone dealing with the aftermath of a narcissistic relationship.