Counsellor A.J. Mahari

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

A.J. Mahari

  • Why Don't Borderlines Just Get It?

Why Don't Borderlines Just Get It?

Monday 9th October 2023

A.J. Mahari discusses the frustrations of dealing with untreated BPD and highlights the importance of focusing on your own healing journey.
28 minutes
Empowering
Informative
Eye-opening
Compassionate
Transformative

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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
Author:
Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Categories:
Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Navigating Alcohol Dependency
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Understanding Untreated BPD: Why They Can't 'Just Get It'

Episode Overview

  • Untreated BPD: A.J. Mahari addresses the misconceptions and challenges of dealing with individuals suffering from untreated BPD, providing empathetic insights into the complexities of such relationships.
  • Prioritize Self-Healing: Mahari emphasizes the importance of prioritizing one's own healing and recovery journey, highlighting the futility of attempting to rescue or fix a person with untreated BPD.
  • Setting Boundaries: The episode accentuates the need for individuals to set boundaries for themselves, focusing on their personal healing and growth rather than attempting to set boundaries for the person with BPD.
  • Transformative Journey: Listeners are encouraged to embark on a transformative journey towards self-discovery and emotional healing, steering away from the illusory hope of changing an individual with untreated BPD.
  • Embracing Empowerment: Mahari's unwavering message encourages listeners to embrace their own power and embark on a journey of healing and recovery, detached from the futile pursuit of changing someone with untreated BPD.
Why don't you get that yet? You've been listening to the Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup Podcast. Our passion is to bring expert information for people hurt by someone with BPD. We truly hope you've gotten something from the show. Make sure to like, rate, and review. For more or get sessions with AJ, go to ajmahari.ca. See you next time.
Ever found yourself frustrated, wondering why someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can't just 'get it'? A.J. Mahari, with her three decades of experience as a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach, dives into this very question. In this episode, Mahari unpacks the common frustrations and misunderstandings that arise when dealing with untreated BPD. She sheds light on why expecting someone with BPD to magically understand boundaries and emotions is often a recipe for disappointment.
Instead, Mahari emphasizes the importance of focusing on your own healing journey. With her compassionate yet straightforward approach, she encourages listeners to prioritize their own well-being rather than trying to 'fix' their partner. If you're grappling with the complexities of a relationship affected by BPD, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice to help you navigate your path to recovery.