Why Does a Narcissist Lie?Why Does a Narcissist Lie?
The Narcissistic Abuse & Trauma Recovery Podcast
For those of us who have been victimised by a narcissist, knowing they are spreading lies about us can be really triggering. It might become worse when we see people around them believing their lies and turning into what we call flying monkeys. So in...
20:24•30 Nov 2021
Why Narcissists Lie: Understanding Their Motives and Finding Your Peace
“Remember, healing from the trauma of narcissistic abuse isn't getting the narcissist to change because they won't.”
Lies can be incredibly damaging, especially when they come from someone with narcissistic tendencies. In this episode of 'The Narcissistic Abuse & Trauma Recovery Podcast', Caroline Strawson dives into the perplexing world of narcissistic lies. Why do they do it? How can you protect yourself from the emotional turmoil it causes? Caroline breaks down the psychology behind these deceitful behaviors, linking them to the narcissist's own protective mechanisms.
She explains how these lies are often a way for narcissists to shield their own vulnerabilities, projecting their pain onto others instead of facing it themselves. Caroline shares her personal experiences, recounting the exhausting days spent trying to manage the fallout from her ex-husband's lies. Her journey from feeling powerless to taking control of her reactions is both inspiring and practical.
You'll learn about the triggers that make these lies so painful and how to identify and manage your own responses. Using techniques like Internal Family Systems therapy, brainspotting, and EMDR, Caroline offers actionable steps to help you move from post-traumatic stress to post-traumatic growth. This episode is a treasure trove of strategies for anyone grappling with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse.
If you're tired of feeling controlled by someone else's lies and ready to reclaim your peace, this episode is a must-listen.

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