Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Cynthia Bailey-Rug
When You Think Sacrificing Yourself Is The Only Way To Save Your Marriage
When You Think Sacrificing Yourself Is The Only Way To Save Your Marriage
When You Think Sacrificing Yourself Is The Only Way To Save Your Marriage
Thursday 12th November 2020
Learn why sacrificing yourself won't save your marriage to a narcissist. Cynthia Bailey-Rug shares her journey and offers advice on self-care and support.
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Get the buttons here!Finding Yourself Again: Escaping the Trap of Self-Sacrifice in Marriage
Please listen to the voice of experience when I tell you that, although it seems like simply giving in to a narcissist in every way- is a quote-unquote easy way to keep the peace. It's not.
Imagine feeling like you have to give up everything about yourself just to keep your marriage afloat. That's the harsh reality for many who are married to narcissists. In this compelling episode, Cynthia Bailey-Rug dives into her own experience of losing herself in her marriage. She thought that by sacrificing her identity, needs, and feelings, she could save her relationship. But what she found was that no amount of self-sacrifice could ever satisfy a narcissist's endless demands.
Instead, it only made things worse. Cynthia highlights how narcissists are like bottomless pits when it comes to their needs. No matter how much you give, it's never enough, and they become more abusive if their insatiable desires aren't met. This episode is a wake-up call for anyone stuck in this toxic cycle. Cynthia's message is clear: self-sacrifice is not the answer.
Instead, she advises taking good care of yourself, questioning everything your partner says or demands, and surrounding yourself with supportive people. Most importantly, she emphasizes leaning on your faith for strength and guidance. This episode is not just informative but also deeply empowering, offering practical advice for those struggling in similar situations.