Mastering Self-Validation: Cynthia Bailey-Rug's Guide to Healing After Narcissistic Abuse
You need to focus on your situation and ways to heal, not whether it's better or worse than other people's situations, and stop judging your feelings after abuse.
Ever find yourself seeking approval from others, only to be let down? Cynthia Bailey-Rug’s episode on self-validation is a lifeline for anyone who has endured narcissistic abuse. In this episode, Cynthia tackles the deep-seated need for validation and how it's often denied to those who've suffered at the hands of narcissists. She delves into the pitfalls of relying on external validation, emphasizing that people are inherently flawed and may fail to provide the affirmation we crave.
Cynthia offers practical steps on how to become your own source of validation, starting with prayer and accepting the imperfections in people and situations. She highlights the importance of self-compassion and steering clear of comparisons to others. “Trauma is trauma,” she reminds us, urging listeners to focus on their unique healing journey rather than measuring their experiences against others. Cynthia’s heartfelt advice encourages you to be your own best supporter and take those crucial first steps toward healing.
Tune in to this episode for an empowering guide on how to validate yourself and reclaim your sense of worth.