Why Saying Sorry Isn't Enough: The Real Amends Process
Episode Overview
Making amends is more than just saying sorry; it involves genuine actions. Timing is crucial—making amends too early can be harmful. Courage is essential to face those you've wronged. The 12-step programme includes specific steps for making amends. True amends can lead to genuine healing and repaired relationships.
Saying sorry is easy, but making amends requires real courage.
Ever wondered why saying sorry often falls flat? In this episode of Real Recovery Talk, Tom Conrad, alongside guests Ben and Eric, unpacks the intricate process of making amends in recovery. This isn't just about uttering a simple apology—it's about genuinely repairing the damage caused by addiction. The trio discusses why timing is crucial, and why rushing to make amends can sometimes backfire. Tom shares personal stories and insights, highlighting the importance of sincere actions over hollow words.
You'll hear about the terrifying yet transformative journey of facing those you've wronged, and the courage it takes to truly make things right. Ben and Eric add their perspectives, discussing the steps within the 12-step programme and how making amends fits into long-term recovery. If you're in recovery or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable lessons on patience, sincerity, and the real meaning of making amends.
Dive into this heartfelt discussion to understand why actions speak louder than words and how true amends can pave the way for genuine healing.