The Scapegoat's Burden: Navigating Narcissistic Abuse - Part 1
You are not randomly created to be a scapegoat. You are the blame for the things that are out of your control. This is how they make you feel a scapegoat.
Imagine being the one who always gets blamed, the one who bears the brunt of someone else's toxic behavior. That's the life of a scapegoat in a narcissistic environment. In this episode of 'Self Evolution Regardless', host Maram Ben Rhouma unpacks the heavy load carried by those unfairly cast in this role. From childhood through adulthood, scapegoats endure relentless emotional and psychological abuse, often for their ability to think independently and challenge the narcissist's control.
Maram delves into why certain individuals are targeted as scapegoats, revealing the narcissist's tactics to maintain their facade of perfection. Scapegoats are portrayed as the problem, painted in the worst light possible to uphold the narcissist's image. They are made to feel invisible, emotionally unstable, and perpetually guilty for things beyond their control. Drawing from her own experiences, Maram sheds light on the strength and resilience of scapegoats.
These individuals often possess qualities like independence and courage, which ironically make them targets. The episode doesn't just stop at identifying the problem; it offers strategies for coping and healing. Maram emphasizes self-investment and self-love as crucial steps towards breaking free from this destructive role. Whether you're a scapegoat yourself or know someone who is, this episode provides valuable insights into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse and how to rise above it.
Tune in to understand the complexities of being a scapegoat and discover ways to reclaim your life from the shadows of narcissistic manipulation.