I emerged from my divorce $60,000 in debt. And some people, some people like, oh, I'm only walking away with X. And some people spend hundreds of thousands to get out of it. And here's the thing. What if all of these things, but I regain my self-confidence, I can live in peace, I can raise my children in a healthy way, and I can work my way out of that situation into a better one. And, and when the fear can diminish, and you can think clearly using your frontal cortex, people will make the choice that it's, it's going to be hard. The material stuff will be hard, but the emotional stuff won't be. And that's a game changer.