Ross Rosenberg

The Self-Love Recovery Podcast

Ross Rosenberg, M. Ed., LCPC, CADC

  • Surviving and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse.

Surviving and Healing from Narcissistic Abuse.

Wednesday 19th March 2025

Ross Rosenberg shares expert advice on healing from narcissistic abuse and building self-love in this episode of The Self-Love Recovery Podcast.
38 minutes
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Healing

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The Self-Love Recovery Podcast
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Surviving Narcissistic Abuse: A Path to Self-Love

Episode Overview

  • Understand the traits of pathological narcissists.
  • Recognise the dynamics of narcissistic abuse.
  • Avoid direct confrontation with narcissists.
  • Focus on building self-love and healing childhood traumas.
  • Seek therapy and personal growth for recovery.
To survive pathological narcissism is not to fight. It’s finding self-love.
Ross Rosenberg, the renowned author and psychotherapist, dives into the complex world of narcissistic abuse in this episode of The Self-Love Recovery Podcast. Drawing from his extensive clinical experience and personal journey, Ross provides a comprehensive guide on surviving and healing from the grips of narcissistic relationships. He begins by defining what constitutes a narcissist, explaining the traits of pathological narcissists, including those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), and Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD).
These individuals often exhibit grandiosity, entitlement, and a lack of empathy, making relationships with them particularly challenging and harmful. Ross details the dynamics of narcissistic abuse, emphasizing how codependents, or those with self-love deficit disorder (SLDD), often find themselves entangled with narcissists due to their own deep-seated issues of self-worth and loneliness. He explains the concept of the 'human magnet syndrome,' where opposites attract, leading to a cycle of abuse and trauma for the codependent partner.
To break free from this cycle, Ross stresses the importance of self-love and healing childhood traumas that contribute to SLDD. He advises against fighting back directly with a narcissist, likening it to wrestling with a pig - you'll both get dirty, but the pig enjoys it. Instead, he advocates for building self-love abundance through therapy and personal growth.
The episode also features a Q&A segment where Ross addresses a listener's concern about finding love after 65, offering hope and encouragement that it's never too late to find happiness and healthy relationships. If you've ever felt trapped in a toxic relationship or struggled with self-worth, this episode is a must-listen. Ross's compassionate and knowledgeable approach provides valuable insights and practical advice for anyone on the path to recovery from narcissistic abuse.