Ross Rosenberg

The Self-Love Recovery Podcast

Ross Rosenberg, M. Ed., LCPC, CADC

  • Angry, Reactive, Without Empathy: Borderline Personality Disorder

Angry, Reactive, Without Empathy: Borderline Personality Disorder

Wednesday 26th March 2025

Ross Rosenberg unpacks why individuals with BPD and NPD struggle with empathy, deep-seated shame, and fear of abandonment.
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Understanding Borderline and Narcissistic Personality Disorders

Episode Overview

  • Individuals with BPD and NPD struggle to recognise the emotional pain they cause.
  • Deep-seated shame is a core issue for those with these disorders.
  • People with BPD often have an intense fear of abandonment.
  • Lack of empathy is a common trait in both BPD and NPD.
  • Childhood trauma plays a significant role in the development of these disorders.
Their narcissistic injury is their core shame.
In this episode of The Self-Love Recovery Podcast, Ross Rosenberg dives into the complexities of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Tackling questions from his Self-Love Mailbag, Ross explains why individuals with these disorders struggle to recognise the emotional pain they inflict on others. He also explores the origins of their deep-seated shame and the reasons behind their lack of empathy.
Through his extensive experience, Ross provides insights into the intense fear of abandonment that plagues those with BPD and how this fear manifests in their behaviour. Using personal anecdotes and professional expertise, Ross paints a vivid picture of the challenges faced by those with BPD and NPD, making this episode a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand these complex disorders.
By the end, you'll have a clearer understanding of the psychological underpinnings of these behaviours and the impact they have on relationships. So, if you've ever wondered why someone with BPD or NPD acts the way they do, this episode is packed with valuable insights that can help you navigate these challenging relationships.