Loving Someone to Death: The Perils of Codependency
Codependent behavior is doing things for people that they can and should do for themselves. If you're doing something for somebody that they should and can't be doing for themselves, you're stealing from them opportunity for growth, which ultimately turns into loving them to death.
What happens when love becomes a trap? In this episode of 'Surviving Loving An Addict Podcast', David Millward, ASUDC, and his son Carston tackle the thorny issue of codependency. It's a behavioral pattern where one person enables another's addiction, often at the expense of their own well-being. David, with his extensive experience counseling over ten thousand addicts, shares eye-opening insights into how trying to rescue a loved one can sometimes do more harm than good.
They discuss the emotional toll codependency takes on relationships and emphasize the importance of personal responsibility in the recovery process. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who feels trapped in the cycle of trying to save someone they love. You'll come away with a better understanding of why seeking professional help is crucial and how you can support your loved one without losing yourself in the process.
It's a heartfelt conversation that offers both practical advice and emotional support, making it an essential resource for families grappling with addiction.