Why Tough Love Isn't the Answer: Insights from 'Surviving Loving An Addict'
Being tyrannical in how we deal in our relationships, and you know, agency or free will is one of those things that is not meant to be impeded.
When someone you love is struggling with addiction, it's tempting to think that strict measures might set them straight. In this thought-provoking episode of 'Surviving Loving An Addict', hosts David and Carston Millward challenge this notion head-on. Drawing inspiration from a C.S. Lewis quote, they explore why 'tyrannical sanctions' often do more harm than good. Instead of taking a hardline approach, the Millwards advocate for setting healthy boundaries and finding a balance between support and stepping back.
They delve into the crucial role of free will and personal agency in the recovery journey, emphasizing that addiction is a complex issue that can't be solved with authoritarian tactics. This episode also shines a light on the ripple effects of addiction within families, offering practical advice and emotional support for those navigating these tough waters. Tune in to gain valuable insights and learn why compassion and understanding might be more effective than trying to control the situation.