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”But If You Drop Me I’ll Die”
”But If You Drop Me I’ll Die”
”But If You Drop Me I’ll Die”
Saturday 17th September 2022
David and Carston Millward discuss letting go and the dilemma of saving oneself or helping a loved one who refuses to progress.
23 minutes
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Understanding Addiction & Recovery
Sobriety Toolkit
Family Recovery from Addiction
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Creative Recovery Journeys
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Get the buttons here!Holding On or Letting Go: Navigating Tough Choices in Addiction Support
I think it's more selfish to stay in that place, that one-for-one place, because the guy holding the rope on top of the bridge after letting go can keep moving and there are going to be people on the journey that need help.
Ever felt like you're stuck in a tug-of-war between helping a loved one and saving yourself? This episode of 'Surviving Loving An Addict Podcast' dives into that exact dilemma. Hosted by the insightful duo, David and Carston Millward, the discussion centers around the tough choices families face when dealing with addiction.
David, with his vast experience counseling over ten thousand addicts, shares wisdom on the importance of letting go and the necessity of hitting rock bottom for true change to happen. The episode paints a vivid picture using a gripping metaphor: imagine two men on a bridge, one holding a rope tied around the other. The man holding the rope struggles to save his friend but realizes he must let go for both their sakes.
This powerful image encapsulates the painful but often necessary act of stepping back to allow a loved one to find their own path to recovery. The hosts also touch on how addiction impacts family members and the critical need for seeking medical help. They emphasize that moving forward and helping others is crucial, even when it means making heart-wrenching decisions.
This episode is a heartfelt guide for anyone caught in the emotional whirlwind of supporting an addict, offering both compassion and practical advice. If you're grappling with these challenges, this conversation might just provide the clarity and support you need.