Why We Yearn for Those Who Hurt Us: Unpacking the Psychology of Abuse
When you're living in a world of despair and pain, it's easier to think good about someone we love than it is to face the bad, and I think our brain tends to turn this on when we're in the cycle of abuse.
Ever wondered why you might miss someone who treated you poorly? In this episode of Domestic Abuse Recovery Journal, Jennifer Mixon takes a deep dive into the perplexing world of abusive relationships. She unravels the reasons behind romanticizing an abuser and how childhood trauma and attachment styles play a significant role in these toxic dynamics. Jennifer's gentle yet insightful approach helps listeners understand why they associate love with pain and how these unhealthy patterns develop.
With her personal experiences and professional expertise, she sheds light on the false belief of unworthiness that often traps individuals in such relationships. Jennifer offers practical advice on breaking free from these harmful cycles and moving towards healthier, more fulfilling connections. This episode is a beacon for anyone grappling with the aftermath of abuse, providing both understanding and hope.