The Illusion of Promises: Understanding Narcissistic Future Faking
Essentially, it is the promise of a better future in exchange for the present-day payout of resources on the part of the victim.
Ever felt like someone promised you the moon and then vanished? In this episode of the 'Narcissism Recovery Podcast', Yitz Epstein dives into the unsettling world of narcissistic future faking. Future faking is when narcissists make grand promises about the future to manipulate their victims into giving them what they want now.
It's like dangling a carrot just out of reach, and by the time you realize it's a trick, you might have already lost a lot—emotionally, financially, or even professionally. Yitz breaks down how future faking is closely tied to love bombing, another manipulative tactic. He offers practical advice on how to recognize these deceitful behaviors early on. Trusting your gut, observing if actions match words, and staying alert to gaslighting are some of the key strategies he discusses.
Yitz also emphasizes the importance of healing from these emotional wounds and staying grounded in the present moment. This episode is packed with insights that can help you protect yourself from falling into the trap of future faking. Whether you're currently dealing with a narcissist or trying to recover from past experiences, Yitz's compassionate guidance provides a beacon of hope. Tune in to learn how to spot the red flags and reclaim your life from the clutches of narcissistic manipulation.