Holiday Survival Guide: Managing Narcissists During Celebrations
It is literally about symptom management, not root cause resolution.
The festive season can be a minefield when dealing with a narcissist, and Caroline Strawson is here to help you navigate it. In this episode of the Narcissistic Abuse & Trauma Recovery Podcast, Caroline dives into the complexities of celebrating holidays, birthdays, and family events when a narcissist is involved. She offers practical advice tailored to two scenarios: those who are separated or divorced from a narcissist, and those who still have to spend these occasions with them.
Caroline shares her own experiences with her narcissistic ex-husband during the holidays, providing relatable insights and useful tips. You'll learn why holidays can be particularly challenging with a narcissist and how planning ahead can make a world of difference. Caroline emphasizes the importance of clear communication and offers strategies for structuring messages to minimize conflict. She also discusses how these plans can be beneficial in court if needed.
For those who must spend the holidays with a narcissist, Caroline provides guidance on how to approach communication and manage interactions to keep stress levels low. She also introduces resources like butterfly tapping and self-brain spotting to help manage trauma symptoms during these high-stress times. This episode is a lifeline for anyone struggling to find peace during the holidays while dealing with a narcissist.
With Caroline's expert advice, you'll be better equipped to not only survive but thrive during these challenging times.