Raising Independent Kids: The IMPACT Model of Collaborative Parenting
We want to be really careful not to shut them down, which we parents tend to do, because we don't agree with like.
Ever felt overwhelmed by the task of guiding your child to become self-sufficient? In this engaging episode of ADHD Focus, Dr. David Pomeroy sits down with Elaine Taylor-Klaus to continue their conversation on the IMPACT model of collaborative parenting. Elaine, a seasoned expert in the field, breaks down this innovative approach into four key roles: Director, Guide, Supporter, and Advisor & Cheerleader.
Each phase is designed to help parents navigate their child's emotional and intellectual development, ultimately steering them towards independence. Elaine's insights are both practical and heartfelt. She emphasizes the importance of building a strong relationship with your child as the foundation for any successful parenting strategy.
As she puts it, “Nothing else can go forward until you’ve strengthened the relationship with your kid, because that’s the place, that’s the trust, right?” This episode dives into real-life applications of the IMPACT model, offering valuable tips on how to tackle everyday challenges like homework and emotional regulation. If you're a parent dealing with ADHD in your family, or simply looking for effective ways to nurture your child's growth, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom.
Elaine's book, 'The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids', also comes highly recommended for those wanting to delve deeper into these techniques. Tune in and discover how collaborative parenting can transform your relationship with your child and set them on a path to a productive, happy life.