Guiding Young Minds: Julie Lythcott-Haims on Mental and Emotional Support
We're so worried about our kids being happy and successful that we just want them to get out there and get the job and have the money, and Da, Da, Da, Da Da, that we miss the mental and emotional support.
What does it really take to raise a well-rounded adult? In this episode of 'Here's the Deal', hosts Audre Nelson and Devin Kleffer chat with Julie Lythcott-Haims, the brilliant mind behind 'Your Turn' and 'How to Raise an Adult'. Julie shares her no-nonsense views on the pitfalls of helicopter parenting and the importance of letting kids make their own choices, even if it means they stumble along the way.
Julie delves into why vulnerability and authenticity are key in building strong relationships. She highlights the importance of social connections and how parents can help their children cultivate these skills early on. The conversation also touches on the challenges young adults face today, from navigating relationships to finding stable housing. Audre and Devin bring their own experiences to the table, making this episode both informative and relatable.
They discuss how parents can provide a safe and supportive environment without micromanaging every aspect of their children's lives. The takeaway? It's not just about setting your kids up for success; it's about being there for them emotionally and mentally as they navigate life's ups and downs. Whether you're a parent, educator, or just curious about the intricacies of raising young adults, this episode offers valuable insights.
Tune in to hear Julie's thoughts on fostering independence, building social skills, and why sometimes, letting go is the best thing you can do for your kids.