Balancing Two Minds: Ambivalence in Addiction Recovery
Normalizing that your loved one is experiencing ambivalence, and it's actually a normal characteristic. You don't want to do this anymore, you want something better.
Ever felt torn between two opposing thoughts? In this episode of 'Coming Up for Air', hosts Dominique Simone Levine, Laurie McDougall, and Kayla Solomon unpack the concept of ambivalence and its impact on addiction. Ambivalence is when someone feels both a strong desire to quit using substances and an equally strong urge to continue. This tug-of-war can be incredibly confusing for both the person struggling with addiction and their loved ones.
The hosts shed light on why understanding ambivalence is crucial for families. They explain that recognizing these conflicting feelings can help you better support your loved one without jumping to conclusions or assuming they're in denial. The conversation also touches on the importance of open communication and building trust, which are key to navigating this emotional maze. One of the standout moments in this episode is the discussion on the Craft method.
This approach emphasizes self-care and empowerment, not just for the person battling addiction but for their family members too. The hosts offer practical advice on how to apply this method, making it easier for families to foster a supportive environment. If you're dealing with addiction in your family, this episode offers a wealth of insights and actionable strategies.
From understanding the nuances of ambivalence to learning effective communication techniques, you'll find valuable tools to help you and your loved one on the path to recovery.