Allies in Recovery
Allies in Recovery
Collaboration vs. Ultimatum
Collaboration vs. Ultimatum
Collaboration vs. Ultimatum
Friday 9th December 2022
Discover how to support a loved one's recovery through collaboration and communication. Learn practical tips on setting boundaries and fostering responsibility.
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Get the buttons here!Collaboration vs. Ultimatum: Striking the Right Balance in Addiction Recovery
Without their 'skin in the game,' little can change. Model engagement, which is also part of the treatment process.
Picture this: your loved one is returning home after a stint in rehab, and you're wondering how to best support their recovery. In this episode of 'Coming Up for Air', hosts Dominique Simone-Lavigne, Laurie McDougall, and Kayla Solomon tackle the delicate balance between collaboration and ultimatums. They dive into the importance of ongoing communication and setting boundaries that foster responsibility and agency in your loved one.
Rather than issuing ultimatums, which can often backfire and damage relationships, the hosts advocate for a collaborative approach that involves your loved one in the recovery process. The discussion highlights how crucial it is to have continuous, open conversations about expectations, concerns, and plans. This isn't just a one-time talk; it's an ongoing dialogue that helps keep everyone on the same page.
The hosts stress that without your loved one's active participation—what they call 'skin in the game'—lasting change is hard to achieve. The episode also introduces listeners to the Craft method, a subtle yet powerful approach to intervention that encourages treatment through positive reinforcement rather than harsh demands. By involving your loved one in setting their own goals and responsibilities, you create a more supportive and effective recovery environment. Throughout the episode, the hosts emphasize patience and compassion.
Recovery is a journey, not a sprint, and it's important to approach it with understanding and empathy. By fostering a collaborative atmosphere, you can help your loved one feel empowered to take charge of their own recovery, making the process more sustainable and less stressful for everyone involved. So if you're grappling with how to support a loved one's recovery without overstepping or issuing ultimatums, this episode offers practical advice and heartfelt insights that can make a real difference.
Tune in to learn more about finding that crucial balance and creating a positive path forward.