Caroline Strawson

The Narcissistic Abuse & Trauma Recovery Podcast

Caroline Strawson

  • Cheating Is Actually Betrayal Trauma

Cheating Is Actually Betrayal Trauma

Tuesday 9th April 2024

Caroline Strawson explores betrayal trauma from cheating, sharing personal stories and offering practical steps for healing and self-recovery.
15 minutes
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The Narcissistic Abuse & Trauma Recovery Podcast
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Caroline Strawson
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Recovery from Trauma
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Healing Relationships
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Betrayal Trauma: Understanding the Impact of Cheating

Episode Overview

  • Cheating is a form of betrayal trauma with serious emotional impacts.
  • It's crucial to stop blaming yourself for your partner's infidelity.
  • Recognise that cheating is a sign of a toxic relationship.
  • Various therapeutic methods can aid in healing from betrayal trauma.
  • Healing involves understanding the root causes and working on self-worth.
Trauma isn't necessarily the event; it's what happens inside you as a result of what happens outside you
Cheating in relationships is often downplayed, but it can cause deep emotional scars. In this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse & Trauma Recovery Podcast, Caroline Strawson dives into the concept of betrayal trauma, sharing her personal journey and professional insights. Caroline candidly discusses her experience with a perpetually cheating ex-husband and how she initially blamed herself for his infidelity.
She emphasises that cheating is not a reflection of your worth but rather a symptom of a toxic relationship and the cheater's issues. Caroline explains how betrayal trauma affects self-esteem and mental health, often leading to chronic illnesses if left unaddressed. She shares practical advice on recognising betrayal trauma, stopping self-blame, and starting the healing process.
Caroline's unique approach combines various therapeutic methods like Internal Family Systems, Brainspotting, and Somatic Experiencing to help listeners move from post-traumatic stress to post-traumatic growth. This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling with the emotional fallout of cheating, offering hope and practical steps for healing.