Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
BPD Splitting Destroys Relationships - 14 Signs of How and Why You Need To Stop Relationship Recycling
BPD Splitting Destroys Relationships - 14 Signs of How and Why You Need To Stop Relationship Recycling
BPD Splitting Destroys Relationships - 14 Signs of How and Why You Need To Stop Relationship Recycling
Saturday 3rd June 2023
A.J. Mahari explains BPD splitting's destructive role in relationships and offers signs to help you break free from the cycle.
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Episode Overview
- BPD splitting is a major defence mechanism deeply rooted in individuals with BPD, leading to a love-hate dynamic in relationships.
- The destructive behaviour of projecting negative feelings onto partners ruins relationships and causes immense pain.
- A.J. Mahari provides valuable insights into the signs and impact of BPD splitting, shedding light on the challenges faced by partners.
- The episode delves into the core trauma that causes BPD splitting and the profound effects it has on both individuals with BPD and their partners.
- Listeners gain an understanding of the coping strategies and healing processes necessary to navigate the destructive impact of BPD splitting in relationships.
People with BPD split because they cannot tolerate bad feelings or anxious feelings, and they project these onto their partners to alleviate their distress. This destructive behaviour ruins relationships and causes immense pain.
Ever felt like you're on an emotional rollercoaster with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? In this eye-opening episode, A.J. Mahari breaks down the concept of BPD splitting and its devastating impact on relationships. Splitting is a major defense mechanism for those with BPD, often rooted in deep childhood trauma that disrupts their emotional development. This episode goes beyond the surface to explain how splitting leads to a chaotic love-hate dynamic, leaving partners feeling betrayed and confused.
Mahari offers 14 clear signs to help you recognize when splitting is damaging your relationship and why trying to 'fix' your partner is a futile effort. Instead, she emphasizes the importance of focusing on your own healing and breaking free from the cycle of relationship recycling. Whether you're directly affected by BPD or supporting someone who is, this episode provides crucial insights and practical advice to navigate these turbulent waters.