Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
BPD Relationship Recycling Getting Your Ex Back is Recycling The Trauma Bond
BPD Relationship Recycling Getting Your Ex Back is Recycling The Trauma Bond
BPD Relationship Recycling Getting Your Ex Back is Recycling The Trauma Bond
Wednesday 10th May 2023
A.J. Mahari dives into the toxic cycle of trauma bonding in BPD relationships, urging listeners to prioritize self-care and healing.
23 minutes
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
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Episode Overview
- A.J. Mahari provides expert insights on navigating trauma bonding and the complexities of pursuing relationships with a BPDX
- The episode delves into the reactive nature of rebounding and emphasizes the toxic, painful cycle that ensues
- Listeners are urged to rethink the desire to rekindle these relationships and prioritize healing and recovery
- The podcast confronts the challenges of wanting the BPDX back and the inherent risks associated with recycling the relationship
- A.J. Mahari encourages a shift towards self-focus and embarking on a healing journey
You're being driven a lot by the deep underpinnings of betrayal trauma in your childhood that you would reenact and replay, maybe not consciously, abandonment and betrayal trauma, which is essentially like the trauma bond really is a betrayal bond.
Ever wondered why getting back with an ex who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) often feels like a never-ending cycle of pain? In this episode, A.J. Mahari, a seasoned Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach, dives deep into the murky waters of BPD relationship recycling. She sheds light on how rekindling these relationships often means re-entering a toxic cycle of trauma bonding, which is far from the love you might be seeking.
Mahari explains that both parties—those with BPD and their codependent partners—are caught in a dualistic dance of unhealed wounds and re-wounding. This cycle isn't just emotionally draining; it's increasingly toxic and painful for everyone involved. Through her compassionate and insightful approach, Mahari urges listeners to rethink their desire to reignite these fraught relationships. Instead, she emphasizes the importance of focusing on self-care, healing, and personal growth.
This episode offers a compelling look at the dangers of trauma bonds and provides actionable advice for those looking to break free and start their journey toward recovery. If you're grappling with the aftermath of a BPD relationship and wondering if getting back together is worth it, this episode is a must-listen.