Counsellor A.J. Mahari
Counsellor A.J. Mahari
Borderlines Playing the Victim Are Borderlines Professional Victims
Borderlines Playing the Victim Are Borderlines Professional Victims
Borderlines Playing the Victim Are Borderlines Professional Victims
Sunday 7th March 2021
Counsellor A.J. Mahari explores the victim mentality in BPD and offers healing strategies for those recovering from such relationships.
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
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Get the buttons here!Understanding the Victim Role in BPD: Insights from A.J. Mahari
People with BPD use what they don't know how to explain as a reason to justify abuse of others. And so they will try to justify the abuse, but it's unjustifiable.
What happens when someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) seems to constantly play the victim? In this episode of 'Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups', Counsellor A.J. Mahari sheds light on the complex dynamics at play. Mahari explains that the victim mentality often stems from past trauma and manifests as an unconscious repetition compulsion. This behavior, while understandable, can be challenging for those in relationships with individuals with BPD. But don’t worry, Mahari offers practical advice for navigating these turbulent waters.
She discusses how codependency and a dysfunctional self-relationship can lead people into these intense relationships and stresses the importance of focusing on one's own healing journey. Additionally, Mahari introduces Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy as a powerful tool for processing trauma. If you're grappling with the fallout from a BPD relationship, this episode is packed with insights and strategies to help you move forward.