Healing Relationships: The Ninth Step Journey
Making amends is more than offering an apology. Amends are about repair, about fixing what we broke and repaying what we stole or borrowed and, in the process, clearing away more and more of the wreckage of our past.
Ever felt the weight of past mistakes dragging you down? In this episode of 'Recovery Road', author and sponsor Hamilton B. sheds light on the transformative process of making amends, a key focus of the Ninth Step in the Twelve Steps program. Drawing from his book, *Twelve Step Sponsorship: How It Works*, Hamilton explains that making amends isn't just about saying sorry—it's about actively repairing the damage and restoring trust.
This face-to-face approach can be tough, but it's crucial for clearing away the wreckage of the past and moving forward in recovery. Hamilton emphasizes the importance of accountability, urging us to own our part in conflicts without shifting blame onto others. He shares practical advice on approaching those we've hurt with genuine remorse and a forgiving spirit, regardless of their reaction.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone in early recovery looking to mend broken relationships and build a foundation for lasting sobriety.