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  • 97. Meeting Your Own Needs with Jai Singh

97. Meeting Your Own Needs with Jai Singh

Friday 28th April 2023

Join Patrick Fox and Jai Singh as they discuss balancing fatherhood and self-care, offering practical advice for living a purposeful life.
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Fatherhood and Self-Care: Jai Singh's Guide to Thriving as a Dad

Episode Overview

  • Jai Singh, a life coach supporting fathers in living purposeful lives, discusses the challenges and tools for navigating intense emotions and unmet needs.
  • The conversation emphasises the significance of small, consistent actions in initiating change and the power of feeling all emotions unconditionally.
  • Jai shares his journey of self-discovery, reinventing his self-care practices, and seeking support from other men to navigate the pressures of parenting.
  • The episode explores the nuances of fatherhood, the importance of connecting with one's purpose, and the complexities of reconciling with unmet needs.
  • Listeners will gain insights into the significance of support from other men, the challenges of parenting, and the potential for small actions to bring about substantial change.
my purpose my mission was to stop drinking for my kids because I wanted to show up as a better father and as a better partner and do more things in my life that fulfilled me
Fatherhood is a journey filled with both joy and challenges, and it’s easy to lose sight of your own needs while navigating this path. In this episode of 'The Alcohol ReThink Podcast', Patrick Fox sits down with Jai Singh, a life coach dedicated to helping fathers lead lives brimming with purpose and passion.
Jai, who describes himself as a 'work-in-progress' in his roles as a man, husband, and dad, shares invaluable insights on how fathers can reignite their inner fire and show up more fully for their families. They dive into the evolving role of parenting, discussing how modern fatherhood differs from previous generations. Jai emphasizes the importance of preparing for fatherhood, not just practically but emotionally, and how connecting with other men can provide much-needed support.
They also touch on how fatherhood can resurface childhood wounds and the importance of understanding and meeting your own needs. One of the key takeaways from their conversation is the habit of regularly asking yourself, 'What am I feeling right now? What do I need right now?' This simple practice can be transformative in managing intense emotions and staying grounded.
Jai also talks about learning to trust your intuition and dispelling the 'monster' we often create in our minds, which rarely manifests as feared. This episode is a treasure trove of practical advice and heartfelt wisdom for any father striving to balance self-care with the demands of parenting. Whether you're a new dad or have been at it for years, you'll find something to resonate with in Jai's approach to fatherhood and self-discovery.