From Pleaser to Protector: Embracing Self-Care After Breast Cancer
Episode Overview
Assert boundaries with compassion. Self-care isn't selfish; it's necessary. Reflect on personal growth after illness. Prioritise your health and happiness. Understand the impact of people-pleasing.
Why do we think it's us who has to be nicer? Maybe your lesson is to find your voice.
Ever wondered how to truly stand up for yourself, especially after a life-altering experience like breast cancer? In this episode of 'The Breast Cancer Recovery Coach', Laura Lummer shares her journey from being a people-pleaser to becoming a protector of her own well-being. Reflecting on the 13th anniversary of her first breast cancer diagnosis, Laura delves into the lessons she's learned about self-care and setting boundaries.
She candidly discusses the pressures many women face to accommodate others at the expense of their own health and happiness. Laura's reflections are not just personal anecdotes but resonate with many who find themselves in similar situations. She emphasises that true kindness to oneself involves asserting boundaries with compassion and not tolerating mistreatment. Through relatable stories, Laura illustrates the importance of saying 'no' to things that don't serve you and 'yes' to what nurtures your well-being.
This episode is a heartfelt reminder that self-care isn't selfish, and standing up for yourself is a crucial part of healing and living a fulfilling life after breast cancer. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that will encourage you to reassess your own boundaries and prioritise your health and happiness.