Do You Matter to God? Dr. Rick Marks Has the Answer
Episode Overview
Challenge traditional fear-based religious teachings. Understand your intrinsic worth through Psalm 139. Recognise the impact of unmet relational needs. Foster healthy self-love for emotional well-being. Embrace your purpose and value in life.
You don't die for things you hate; you die for things you value.
In this thought-provoking episode of RelateWell with Dr. Rick Marks, the spotlight is on the profound question: 'Do I matter to God?' Dr. Rick Marks, alongside co-host Angelia Savage, dives into the complex relationship between self-worth and faith, challenging traditional evangelical teachings that often focus on our shortcomings. With a background as a licensed professional counsellor and ordained minister, Dr. Rick brings a unique blend of clinical expertise and pastoral care to the discussion.
He shares his own journey from a troubled childhood to a place of healing and understanding, offering listeners a fresh perspective on their intrinsic value as seen through the lens of Psalm 139. Dr. Rick doesn't shy away from controversial topics, urging you to set aside preconceived notions and engage with his message. He critiques the common practice of using fear and guilt in religious teachings, arguing that it perpetuates an 'orphan mindset'—a feeling of never being good enough.
Instead, he advocates for recognising our inherent worth and purpose, grounded in the belief that we are 'very good' creations of God, despite our flaws. The episode also touches on practical aspects of fostering healthy self-love and relational skills, which are essential for emotional well-being. Dr. Rick explains how unmet relational needs can lead to lifelong struggles and how understanding and addressing these needs can pave the way for healthier relationships.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with feelings of inadequacy or seeking a more compassionate understanding of their faith. Dr. Rick's blend of humour, personal anecdotes, and deep empathy makes this a compelling and transformative listen. Are you ready to challenge your beliefs and embrace your true worth?