The AA Dilemma: Exploring Alternatives with Sober Friends
If you don't believe in a higher power and you don't get on your knees, you will not stay sober. But yeah, I hear it all the time that, yeah, if you don't believe in this- and I've gotten to the point recently and it's been something that's been toying with me- is I've started to say an alternative prayer at the end of meetings rather than, uh, you know, rather than the lord's prayer, because I just started feeling like the lord's prayer is not where I'm at.
Ever wondered why some people steer clear of AA meetings? In this episode of 'Sober Friends', hosts Matt J and Steve C tackle the sensitive topic of why some folks avoid Alcoholics Anonymous. Inspired by an episode of the 'Sober Powered Podcast', they offer a candid look at the perceptions and realities that keep people away from AA.
From the fear of being labeled an alcoholic to the discomfort of religious undertones, the hosts don't shy away from discussing the aspects of AA that can be off-putting. Matt, John, and Steve share their own experiences with 12-step programs, acknowledging both the benefits and the flaws. They dive into the idea that there are many paths to sobriety and that AA isn't the only route.
The episode also touches on alternative prayers, the difference between sponsorship and mentorship, and how bullying can negatively impact someone's recovery journey. Despite its imperfections, the hosts emphasize the value of community support in overcoming addiction. They highlight personal stories and positive role models that have helped them along the way. If you've ever felt uneasy about attending an AA meeting or wondered about other options, this episode offers a thoughtful and honest discussion that might just resonate with you.