Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Why People Continue Relationships With Their Abusive Parents
Why People Continue Relationships With Their Abusive Parents
Why People Continue Relationships With Their Abusive Parents
Wednesday 15th July 2020
Cynthia Bailey-Rug explores why some people stay connected to abusive parents, covering guilt, fear, trauma bonding, and religious beliefs.
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Get the buttons here!Why Some Stay Connected to Abusive Parents: Cynthia Bailey-Rug Explains
Being dependent on your parent may be another reason you continue this relationship.
Why do some people remain in relationships with their abusive parents? Cynthia Bailey-Rug takes a deep dive into this perplexing issue. While many sever ties, others stay connected, driven by complex emotions and beliefs. Cynthia sheds light on the roles of guilt, fear, trauma bonding, and religious convictions in these enduring relationships. Abusive parents, especially those with covert narcissistic tendencies, often manipulate their children with guilt, making them feel responsible for their well-being.
This sense of obligation can be hard to break. Cynthia advises those grappling with guilt to seek strength from their faith and focus on their own needs. Fear also plays a significant role. Abusive parents may use threats of suicide or relapse to keep their children in line. Cynthia reminds listeners that adults are responsible for their own actions, and it's crucial to set boundaries.
Trauma bonding is another factor, where victims form emotional attachments to their abusers, a phenomenon not limited to family dynamics but seen in various abusive relationships. Cynthia reassures that this response is normal and healing is achievable. Religious beliefs can further complicate matters. Many abusive parents exploit the commandment to 'honor thy father and mother', but Cynthia clarifies that true honor involves self-respect and setting boundaries. She emphasizes that protecting oneself is a form of honoring one's well-being.
This episode offers a blend of empathy and practical advice, helping listeners understand why they might feel compelled to maintain these toxic connections and how they can begin to reclaim their lives. Whether you're dealing with guilt, fear, or trauma bonding, Cynthia's insights provide a pathway to healthier relationships.