Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Why Narcissists Have Children
Why Narcissists Have Children
Why Narcissists Have Children
Wednesday 15th July 2020
Cynthia Bailey-Rug explores why narcissists have children, focusing on their self-serving motives and the impact on children's mental health.
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Get the buttons here!The Selfish Reasons Narcissists Have Children
Expecting a child to be perfect is putting a tremendous amount of pressure on the child. Trying to meet those impossibly high standards creates a really huge amount of anxiety in anyone, but in particular just a child who wants his or her parent's love.
Ever wondered why some narcissists decide to become parents? Cynthia Bailey-Rug takes a hard look at this perplexing issue in her podcast episode, 'Why Narcissists Have Children'. In her candid discussion, Cynthia reveals that for narcissists, having children is often about serving their own needs and desires. Whether it’s to enhance their image, prove their desirability, or secure their partner's commitment, the reasons are usually self-centered and detrimental to the child's well-being.
Cynthia explains how narcissistic parents view their children as extensions of themselves, expecting perfection and placing unrealistic demands on them. This pressure can create a toxic environment where the child feels immense anxiety and a constant need to please. The episode also delves into the emotional toll this dynamic takes on children, who often grow up feeling responsible for their parents' happiness. Cynthia emphasizes that children should never bear the weight of their parents' emotional needs.
Throughout the episode, she offers valuable insights into the harmful patterns of narcissistic parenting and the long-lasting effects on children's mental health. If you're curious about the psychological underpinnings of narcissistic parenting or seeking to understand your own experiences better, this episode is a must-listen.