Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Cynthia Bailey-Rug
What It Really Means To Honor Abusive Parents
What It Really Means To Honor Abusive Parents
What It Really Means To Honor Abusive Parents
Thursday 23rd July 2020
Cynthia Bailey-Rug discusses honoring abusive parents, focusing on respect and healthy boundaries. Learn how to balance both in this insightful episode.
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Get the buttons here!Honoring Abusive Parents: Cynthia Bailey-Rug’s Take on Boundaries and Respect
As painful as it's been being no contact, I have felt a lot of peace about it. The time has also given me time to heal and to learn, without the distraction of narcissists constantly demanding my attention.
How do you honor parents who have caused you pain? Cynthia Bailey-Rug dives into this thorny issue, offering a nuanced perspective rooted in Christian values. Drawing from her own experiences with narcissistic abuse, Cynthia breaks down what it really means to honor your parents while safeguarding your well-being. The term 'honor' often conjures images of unwavering respect and obedience, but Cynthia challenges this notion. She explains that honoring your parents doesn’t mean enduring abuse or sacrificing your mental health.
Instead, it’s about showing them basic respect without compromising your own boundaries. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with the dilemma of respecting abusive parents. Cynthia emphasizes the importance of accepting your parents as they are, even if they’re narcissistic. By doing so, you can let go of some of the anger and find clearer ways to manage the relationship.
She also discusses how loving your parents with God's kind of love means wanting the best for them, which sometimes involves setting firm boundaries. One of the most striking points Cynthia makes is about going no contact. While it may seem counterintuitive, she argues that cutting off communication can be an honorable act. It prevents the parent from continuing their abusive behavior and forces them to face the consequences of their actions.
Through her compassionate and insightful discussion, Cynthia offers valuable guidance for those struggling with the complex emotions tied to honoring abusive parents. This episode provides practical advice and emotional support, aiming to bring peace and clarity to those difficult relationships.