TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson

Till The Wheels Fall Off

TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson

  • "Weaponizing" Support - When Does Asking for Support Become Manipulative?

"Weaponizing" Support - When Does Asking for Support Become Manipulative?

Wednesday 28th August 2024

Matt and Paige Robinson discuss 'weaponizing' support in relationships, sharing personal experiences and offering practical advice for healthier interactions.
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64 minutes
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Till The Wheels Fall Off
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TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson
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Sobriety Toolkit
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When Support Becomes Manipulation: Spotting the Signs

Episode Overview

  • Learn to recognise when support is being weaponised.
  • Set healthy boundaries to avoid enabling harmful behaviours.
  • Understand the emotional toll of constantly prioritising others.
  • Shift from manipulative tactics to fostering genuine support.
  • Encourage mutual empathy and balanced relationships.
Thinking about mowing the lawn is not the same as mowing the lawn.
Ever felt like someone was pulling at your heartstrings, asking for 'support' but not really making any effort to change? Matt and Paige Robinson tackle this tricky subject in their latest episode of Till The Wheels Fall Off. They dive into the concept of 'weaponizing' support - when asking for help turns into a manipulative tactic rather than a genuine call for assistance.
Drawing from their own experiences with addiction and recovery, Matt and Paige break down how to spot the difference between real support and emotional manipulation. Matt shares candidly about his past, admitting that he often asked for support as a way to avoid facing the consequences of his actions. Paige adds her perspective, discussing the emotional toll this took on their relationship and how they eventually learned to set healthy boundaries.
Together, they provide practical advice on shifting from manipulative behaviours to fostering genuine support within relationships. You'll hear about the importance of setting boundaries, recognising enabling behaviours, and the emotional exhaustion that comes from constantly prioritising someone else's needs over your own. The episode is peppered with humour and relatable anecdotes, making it an engaging listen even while tackling such a serious topic.
So, if you've ever felt manipulated by someone's plea for support or struggled with setting boundaries, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Tune in to learn how to foster healthier, more balanced relationships where support means genuine encouragement and growth.