Breaking Free from People-Pleasing: Paige's Perspective
Episode Overview
People-pleasing has historical roots in our need for survival. Modern society offers more freedom to live authentically. Finding like-minded individuals can help you stay true to yourself. Societal pressures can make it hard to be authentic, but it's worth it. Embracing your individuality leads to more fulfilling relationships.
It's not a terrible thing unless it stops us from being truly authentic
Paige Robinson dives deep into the roots of people-pleasing in this episode of 'Till The Wheels Fall Off'. She reflects on how historically, humans lived in small, interconnected communities where fitting in was essential for survival. This instinct to please others was ingrained as a means to avoid ostracisation. Fast forward to today, and Paige discusses how the modern world—with its diverse perspectives and communities—offers us the freedom to break away from this need to conform.
She shares personal anecdotes and stories, like her family’s unique dining choices, to illustrate how embracing your true self can lead to more fulfilling relationships and a happier life. Paige also touches on how societal pressures can make it challenging to live authentically but emphasises the importance of finding your own tribe and sticking to your values. She encourages listeners to embrace their individuality, even if it means going against the grain.
This episode is a heartfelt exploration of why we care so much about what others think and how we can shift our mindset to prioritise our own happiness and authenticity.