Unmasking the Valentine's Day Narcissist
Episode Overview
Understanding the concept of 'Valentine's Day Narcissist' Recognising love bombing as a form of emotional manipulation Identifying patterns in relationships with pathological narcissists The importance of self-love and self-care in recovery Practical steps to break free from toxic relationships
Narcissists are parasites. They need our self-love. They need what we can give them.
In this episode of The Self-Love Recovery Podcast, Ross Rosenberg takes a deep dive into the concept of the 'Valentine's Day Narcissist'. He explains how individuals with pathological narcissistic disorders—such as Borderline, Antisocial, or Narcissistic Personality Disorder—manipulate their partners on Valentine's Day through a tactic called 'love bombing'. This manipulative behaviour aims to win over those with self-love deficit disorder, often leading to a toxic cycle of emotional highs and lows.
Drawing from his extensive experience in the mental health field and his own healing journey, Ross provides valuable insights into the dynamics of these relationships and the importance of self-love. He discusses how codependents, or those with self-love deficit disorder, can be particularly vulnerable to these tactics, and offers practical advice on how to break free from these damaging relationships.
By understanding the true nature of the 'Valentine's Day Narcissist', listeners can begin to recognise these patterns in their own lives and take steps towards self-love and recovery. If you've ever felt manipulated or emotionally drained by a partner's sudden shift in behaviour around Valentine's Day, this episode is a must-listen. It’s packed with practical advice and heartfelt wisdom that will leave you feeling more informed and empowered to take control of your own emotional well-being.