Allyson K on Step 9: The Healing Power of Making Amends
The freedom I received from this- and I can tell you I think I mentioned Last Week- I do a lot of visualization and I my favorite thing is the st francis prayer and I have always wanted to be this channel- didn't know how to get there until I got the instructions in the big book.
Imagine facing the people you've hurt and taking steps to make things right. In this episode of Sober Cast, Allyson K takes us through her journey with Step 9 of the Alcoholics Anonymous program. Speaking at a women's event in Bernardsville, NJ, back in 2006, Allyson's story is a heartfelt exploration of the importance of making amends. She opens up about the courage it takes to acknowledge past wrongs and the profound impact it has on one's emotional sobriety.
Allyson starts by stressing the significance of not tackling this step alone. She learned early on to consult her sponsor before making any moves, ensuring she was prepared and thoughtful in her approach. This episode is packed with practical advice on how to do an inventory, which helps in identifying who needs an apology and why. The act of making amends isn't just about saying sorry; it's about taking responsibility and seeking genuine forgiveness.
Allyson shares how this process helped her release the anger and resentment that had been weighing her down. Her candid reflections offer a beacon of hope for anyone struggling with similar feelings. One key takeaway from Allyson's experience is the power of forgiveness—not just from others but also forgiving oneself. She admits it's a challenging journey but emphasizes its necessity for true emotional freedom.
Allyson encourages listeners to trust their instincts and be present in the moment, highlighting the transformative power of being available and engaged. This episode also includes helpful resources for those navigating their recovery journey. From online meetings to Thanksgiving alcathons, Sober Cast ensures you have access to support when you need it most.
Allyson's insights on Step 9 are both inspiring and practical, making this episode a must-listen for anyone committed to their recovery or wanting to understand the depth of the AA program.