Tzvi Hilsenrath, LCSW

Thoughtful Mind with Tzvi

Tzvi Hilsenrath, LCSW

  • TMWT Episode 034: On the Lost Art of Receiving Compliments

TMWT Episode 034: On the Lost Art of Receiving Compliments

Wednesday 9th February 2022

Tzvi Hilsenrath explores why we struggle with accepting compliments and offers tips on how to graciously accept them in this episode of 'Thoughtful Mind with Tzvi'.
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Mastering the Art of Accepting Compliments: Insights from TMWT Episode 034

A compliment is a gift to be accepted. It is not a bomb needing to be defused or a volleyball needing to be returned.
Why do so many of us squirm when someone pays us a compliment? In this episode of 'Thoughtful Mind with Tzvi', host Tzvi Hilsenrath takes a deep dive into the uncomfortable world of receiving compliments. Kicking things off with an anecdote from the famous playwright David Mamet, Tzvi illustrates how actors often deflect praise after a performance, setting the stage for a broader discussion on why we struggle with accepting kind words.
From religious influences to low self-esteem, Tzvi breaks down the various reasons behind this common discomfort. He also highlights the negative impact of rejecting compliments, noting that it not only sends a negative message to the giver but also to ourselves. By exploring different ways people mishandle compliments—whether through denial, minimizing, or volleying them back—Tzvi provides a comprehensive look at this often-overlooked aspect of social interaction.
The episode wraps up with practical advice on how to graciously accept compliments, emphasizing that a simple 'thank you' can go a long way in fostering positive relationships and boosting self-esteem. This episode is perfect for anyone looking to improve their social skills and embrace positive feedback with grace.