Art as a Lifeline: Obelis's Journey from Trauma to Healing
It shows you the way, and it's great to hear somebody just talking about it, but to have it happen so visually too, to actually be able to read and see it happening for you.
Imagine using art as a lifeline in the darkest times. That's exactly what Obelis, a Lithuanian Fantasy and LGBTQ+ comic artist, has done. In this episode of 'Finding OK', she opens up about her powerful journey of processing trauma through her art and storytelling. Growing up, Obelis faced immense challenges as she tried to come out as a lesbian, only to be forced back into the closet by her ultra-religious, homophobic, and abusive mother.
Her work, including the highly popular comic series 'The Recloseted Lesbian', which has captivated over 21 million readers on Webtoon, serves as a therapeutic outlet for her painful memories. Through her art, Obelis not only navigates her own trauma but also extends a comforting hand to other survivors, making them feel less alone. She shares how creativity became her refuge during her turbulent childhood and teenage years, despite her parents' discouragement and mockery.
Struggling with PTSD and facing a homophobic therapist who equated being gay with mental illness, Obelis found solace in medication and eventually embraced her artistic side fully. This episode dives deep into her experiences with therapy, the challenges she faced, and the impact of medication on her mental health. Obelis emphasizes the significance of making one's story known and how her work helps others visualize their healing journey.
She also talks about the struggles within the queer community and her hope to attend pride one day. Obelis's story is a beacon of resilience and creativity, offering inspiration to survivors everywhere.