The Narcissist's Shield: How Addictions Mask Deeper Wounds
I almost feel like the narcissist has these self-worthiness wounds and the label we give to the protector parts of that individual is narcissist, because they're very abusive protector parts, but all with the intention of trying to protect the narcissist from feeling what the individual system perceives to be the most pain and it really really gets stuck.
Why do narcissists often struggle with addiction? In this episode of 'The Narcissistic Abuse & Trauma Recovery Podcast', Caroline Strawson sheds light on this complex relationship. Using the Internal Family Systems approach, Caroline explains how addictions can act as protective mechanisms for narcissists, shielding them from deep-seated feelings of unworthiness that stem from childhood wounds. Ever wondered why a narcissist might turn to substances, work, or even sex as a coping mechanism?
Caroline dives into the psychology behind these behaviors, revealing how these addictions serve to distract and soothe the narcissist from their inner turmoil. The brain, faced with the choice between external distraction and internal pain, opts for what seems less painful. Caroline also discusses the importance of recognizing these patterns for those on their own trauma recovery journey.
By understanding how narcissists interpret others' actions and how this leads to addictive behaviors, listeners can gain valuable insights into their own experiences and healing processes. This episode is a treasure trove of information for anyone dealing with the fallout of narcissistic abuse. Caroline offers practical tools and methods to help survivors move from post-traumatic stress to post-traumatic growth. If you're looking to understand the intricate dance between narcissism and addiction, this episode is a must-listen.