James M

Understanding Violence Addiction

James M

  • The last word. We don’t need it.

The last word. We don’t need it.

Saturday 12th August 2023

Join James M. in 'Understanding Violence Addiction' as he explores the power of choosing silence over conflict for personal growth and peace.
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About this podcast

Understanding Violence Addiction
Author:
James M
Overview:
Categories:
Recovery from Trauma
Recovery Reimagined
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Healing Relationships
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
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Episodes:
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Taking the High Road: Embracing Silence Over Conflict

Episode Overview

  • Reflects on resisting the temptation to have the last word in a challenging situation
  • Demonstrates the impact of choosing integrity and recovery principles
  • Shares insights on navigating conflict and maintaining personal values in recovery
  • Explores the dynamics of the Drama Triangle and its influence on behaviour
  • Encourages listeners to prioritize personal growth and peace in difficult interactions
I gave him no ammunition to badmouth me or to complain about me to anybody else. And I left that situation feeling really, really good.
Ever felt the burning urge to get in the last word during an argument? In this episode of 'Understanding Violence Addiction', James M. dives into his personal journey of resisting that temptation. He shares a story about a time when he could have easily thrown out a zinger but chose to keep quiet instead.
Through his experience, James sheds light on the dynamics of the Drama Triangle—where people often find themselves stuck in roles of Persecutor, Rescuer, or Victim—and how opting for silence can be a powerful tool in recovery. By choosing not to engage in a power struggle, James illustrates how prioritizing integrity and recovery principles can lead to greater peace and personal growth. This episode is packed with practical advice on navigating conflicts while staying true to one's values.
If you're looking for ways to handle tough interactions and maintain your recovery journey, this episode offers a fresh perspective and actionable insights.