Amy Helms
Amy Helms
The Drama Triangle and Compassionate Neutrality with Courtney Fields
The Drama Triangle and Compassionate Neutrality with Courtney Fields
The Drama Triangle and Compassionate Neutrality with Courtney Fields
Wednesday 4th January 2023
Courtney Fields and Amy Helms discuss surviving custody battles with narcissists, emphasizing safety in communication and understanding the drama triangle.
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Get the buttons here!Courtney Fields on Surviving Custody Battles with Narcissists
It's especially important to know safety. And basically, what you're doing is you're learning to communicate with that person in a very intentional way. So it's kind of the opposite of walking on eggshells in the sense that you're real intentional.
Ever felt like you're caught in a never-ending loop of conflict? In this episode of 'Hope After Narcissistic Abuse', host Amy Helms sits down with Courtney Fields, a seasoned expert in divorce and child custody issues. They dive deep into the complexities of the 'Drama Triangle'—a psychological model that outlines the roles of victim, rescuer, and persecutor. If you've ever been entangled in a high-conflict relationship, this conversation is a must-listen.
Courtney brings her 20 years of social work experience and 10 years as a clinician to the table, offering invaluable advice for those navigating custody battles with narcissists. She stresses the importance of recognizing the roles in the drama triangle to avoid getting sucked into endless conflict. Safety in communication is key, and following parenting plans can act as a temporary boundary to keep you out of the rescuer role.
One of the highlights of this episode is Courtney's emphasis on listening to your attorney and sticking to best practices. She also touches on the often-overlooked need for legal and mental health professionals to increase their competency in dealing with these complex cases. Virtual parent coordination is discussed as a viable option for those who live out of state, making it easier to manage long-distance custody issues.
Whether you're in the thick of a custody battle or supporting someone who is, this episode offers practical advice and a sense of community. Tune in to gain insights and strategies that could make a world of difference in your journey toward healing and stability.