Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes
Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes
Supporting Families Without Enabling
Supporting Families Without Enabling
Supporting Families Without Enabling
Saturday 21st September 2019
Learn how to support loved ones without enabling them in this 'Counselor Toolbox Podcast' episode with Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes.
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Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes
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Sobriety Toolkit
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Get the buttons here!Supporting Loved Ones: Balancing Help and Enabling
Enabling behaviors can occur with anyone, not just people who are addicted.
Have you ever wondered if your well-intentioned support might be doing more harm than good? In this episode of the 'Counselor Toolbox Podcast with DocSnipes', Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes tackles the tricky subject of enabling behaviors. While it’s natural to want to help those we care about, sometimes our actions can prevent them from facing the natural consequences of their choices, ultimately stunting their growth and recovery. Dr.
Snipes explains that enabling isn’t just an issue for those dealing with addiction; it can happen in any relationship where one person feels overly responsible for another's well-being. She breaks down common enabling behaviors, such as constantly intervening to shield someone from the outcomes of their actions or trying to control their decisions and activities. The episode goes beyond identifying the problem, offering practical advice on how to support loved ones without enabling them. Dr.
Snipes emphasizes the importance of setting clear boundaries—whether emotional, physical, or financial—and learning to say “no” when necessary. She also highlights the role of self-care for those providing support, stressing that you can’t pour from an empty cup. A key theme is understanding codependency and how it can drive enabling behaviors. Dr. Snipes shares strategies for addressing these underlying issues, including tackling the inner critic and engaging in personal recovery activities.
She encourages listeners to be cheerleaders for healthy behaviors, offering information, encouragement, and coaching rather than stepping in to fix problems. This episode is a must-listen for anyone struggling to find the balance between helping and enabling. With empathy and clarity, Dr. Snipes provides tools and insights that can transform how you support your loved ones while maintaining your own well-being.