Jackie's Journey: From Party Life to True Joy on the Sober Reference Podcast
I am trustworthy, I am present and I am compassionate. Definitely, you're a gift to me.
Imagine feeling like you have to be the life of the party, only to realize that the party is stealing more from you than it's giving. That's the story Jackie shares on this episode of the Sober Reference Podcast. Hosted by Louise Grati, this episode dives into Jackie's transformation from a social drinker to someone who found true joy and abundance in sobriety.
Jackie opens up about her life before quitting alcohol, describing how she felt prettier and more delightful when she was drinking. But the reality was far from glamorous. The constant pressure to be entertaining took a toll on her mental and emotional well-being. She shares some cringe-worthy moments that many listeners will find all too relatable. The conversation shifts to the fears and challenges Jackie faced when she decided to get sober.
She talks about the internal struggles, like feeling awkward and not funny without a drink in hand, and external challenges, such as social pressures. Yet, through it all, she discovered that it's okay to be herself—awkward moments and all. Religion and a higher power also play a significant role in Jackie's sobriety journey. She discusses how her faith has been a cornerstone in her quest for a better, more fulfilling life.
For those who might be skeptical about the role of spirituality in recovery, Jackie's experience offers a thoughtful perspective. Towards the end of the episode, Louise asks Jackie what advice she would give to her newly sober self. Jackie's words are both comforting and practical: it's okay to feel awkward, take breaks, and not feel like yourself right away. She emphasizes taking sobriety one day at a time, or even one minute at a time if needed.
Her message is clear: you are trustworthy, present, and compassionate, and these qualities make you a gift to others. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that sobriety is not just about giving up alcohol but gaining so much more in return. If you're on your own journey or supporting someone who is, Jackie's story offers invaluable insights and encouragement.