Healing from Shame: Understanding Moral Injury in Abusive Relationships
Episode Overview
Moral injury involves participating in actions against one's moral compass, leading to feelings of guilt and shame Countermeasures in abusive relationships include reactive abuse, substance use, infidelity, and other coping mechanisms Survivors engage in these behaviours as a result of being hijacked by their brains in survival mode Understanding moral injury and countermeasures can help survivors reframe their circumstances and reduce guilt and shame Join Mandy Friedman on YouTube, Facebook, and Instagram for more insightful discussions on this topic
Moral injury is when you participate in something that goes against your moral compass, and then you're left feeling a feeling of shame and guilt and believing that you're a bad person.
Ever felt like you’re carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders after leaving an abusive relationship? In this episode of SNAP: Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities, Mandy Friedman, a seasoned counselor and trauma expert, sheds light on the concept of moral injury. Survivors often wrestle with intense guilt and shame, feeling like they’ve betrayed their own moral compass through actions taken to survive.
Mandy dives into how these feelings manifest and what can be done to address them. From reactive abuse to substance use and infidelity, she explains these behaviors as survival tactics rather than moral failings. Mandy’s compassionate approach helps survivors reframe their experiences, reducing the emotional burden they carry. By understanding moral injury and learning countermeasures, listeners can start to heal and reclaim their lives. Join Mandy on YouTube, Facebook, and Instagram for more supportive discussions.